Accepting Graciously

1 Thessalonians 5:16 – 18

Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.

            Thank you.

            These are two simple words that stumble across women's lips and mysteriously unlock a tiny drawer, or a closet, or a massive warehouse of doubt and insecurities.

In response to a complement, women say, "Thank you, it's so old."

In response to a present, women say, "Thank you.  You shouldn't have." 

In response to praise, women say, "Thank you, but I didn't really deserve this."

Is it any wonder why people shy away from giving to women?

And here Prayer Shawl Ministries across the nation are -- giving shawls to women, especially to women who are going through times of trial.

            Years ago, I learned a secret about receiving gifts (praise, complements, et cetera).  The giver is pleased when I just accept graciously.  Thank you, said with honest gratitude, is sufficient.  The gift is validated and the giver feels appreciated.

I thank God the same way I do a friend.  His gifts are overwhelming and magnificent, and I do not deserve them, but I thank Him for them every day.  I don't gush insincerities, nor do I negate His gifts by pointing out my unworthiness.  I thank Him, because I love Him.

Sweet heavenly Father,

Thank you.

Amen.